Point Road School and Markham Place, he attended Red Bank Regional High School, where he got
into a little trouble for experimenting with smoking pot and drinking, but then
went on to college and graduated with a solid 3.0.
a few months after his graduation, the Lavertys, who lived in Little Silver for 20
years, learned the awful truth: Matt was addicted to heroin.
November 2009 arrest plunged Ann and her family down the rabbit hole of addiction
and she’s written a book that not only chronicles the experience but offers
hope to those with similar struggles.
book, "Unraveled: A Story of Heartache and
Hope," comes on the heels of a recent forum held at Rumson-Fair Haven High
School by the Monmouth County Prosecutor’s Office to discuss the growing use
and abuse of heroin in the region. According to a report on Patch, heroin addiction does not discriminate and is not
just a lower-income problem. In just one year, heroin deaths in New Jersey of 18-25
year olds rose 24 percent.
don’t know how we could have stopped it,” Ann, 57, says of Matt’s addiction. When
his drinking and marijuana use spiked in high school, the family worked with the
school and sought outside counseling and Ann thought he had eventually “settled down.”
kick myself all the time, wondering if I shouldn’t have worked outside the
house,” she says. She and her
husband, Mike, had babysitters at home to help out with Matt’s two disabled
siblings while they were at work.
the arrest, Ann says Matt “spiraled out of control,” but today, at 26, he’s
living in a group home in Belmar with other sober men and has been clean for 14
was a crazy year,” says Ann of the road to sobriety. “And what it took to get
there was pretty bad.”
Now living with her family in Ocean City, NJ, Ann says her book was her "healing process."
“I had to put it down somewhere
or my heart was going to explode,” she says. “It started as a way to keep myself somewhat sane, as well
as to keep track of everything that was happening."
Ann says she intentionally wove glimpses of a younger Matt, who was a happy
child and quick to laugh, throughout the book. “That’s what I had to remember,” she says. “He might be
sitting in a jail right now but deep down he’s a good kid.”
The book is geared not only to parents of children addicted
to drugs, but for the addicts themselves and any parents with children coming
up on their teenaged years.
“This could be any of the children sitting in Monmouth County,” Ann says. “It’s the kid next door.”
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