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UPDATE: SJV Responds To Rumors of Insensitive Chant at RBR Basketball Game

RBR and SJV school officials attempt to quell rumors that some SJV students allegedly chanted "Where's Albert?" in the stands at Wednesday night's basketball game.

 

Saint John Vianney Principal Steven C. DiMezza said today that the school is investigating an incident that occurred Wednesday during a boy’s basketball game vs. Red Bank Regional High School in Holmdel. 

"Inappropriate comments were made with regards to the loss of RBR student, Albert Martin," DiMezza said in a statement posted to the school website. "False rumors about chanting began circulating on social media sites.

"Matters such as this one are taken very seriously at Saint John Vianney High School," siad DiMezza. "We are in cooperation with the Holmdel Township Police Department and Red Bank Regional High School. Please be assured we will continue to work toward a resolution of this incident.

DiMezza continued, "Saint John Vianney High School understands and is very sensitive to the loss of a student as we have had three losses in the past few years. One individual’s insensitive comments are not a reflection of our feelings at SJVHS."

RBR students took to Twitter following the Dec. 19 game in Holmdel to express their collective outrage over reports that SJV students allegedly chanted "Where's Albert?" in the stands.

Martin, 17, a Red Bank Regional High School senior, died at Riverview Medical Center Dec. 3 after collapsing during a basketball scrimmage against Point Pleasant Beach High School.

"There was no chant," RBR Principal Risa Clay said in a letter sent to parents Thursday afternoon. Instead, there were "comments made by one or more students in a small group at one end of the gym."

"The fact that it was only a few students does not make this incident any less repulsive or any less painful for our RBR community. In no way do we excuse the actions of these students," said Clay.

Students tweeted their reactions after the game, which SJV won 47-33, one writing that she was "seriously disgusted by the lack of respect" and another who was "infuriated."

"We are family and no one disrespects our family," another RBR student tweeted about the incident.

According to Principal Clay, she and the school's athletic director met with Holmdel police and "a number of RBR student representatives" to investigate the matter Thursday.

The SJV principal and athletic director apologized to the RBR community and Martin's family and is taking the matter "very seriously," said Clay. "They are committed to finding the people who made these comments and addressing them accordingly."

"Over the course of the past several months we have shown the true resilience of the RBR community, a resilience that we must not allow to be weakened by the ignorance and insensitivity of a few, said Clay.

"Join me in rising above this negativity and staying strong while honoring the memory of Albert Martin."

Related Topics: Albert Martin, Red Bank Regional High School, and SJV

D W

7:07 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012

This is so unsurprising. I am not one to write on a forum like this, but my kids graduated high school in '07 and '08 and played soccer, basketball, baseball. SJV kids exhibited the worst sportsmanship I had ever seen. I once sought out the AD there to complain about it. Absolutely awfl

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Diane Canterbury

7:00 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

What Would Albert Do? (WWAD?) Biggie Smile - I got this... He would take the high road and just give them a big smile from his big heart. Let's do the same in honoring his integrity and character.

Patti

7:22 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012

It's disgraceful the behavior of the sjv students. Shame on them. I think they should be punished for this insensitive behavior. Inexcusable. Prayers go out to the sjv students who have no compassion or kindness in their hearts for Albert and his rbr family.

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tfresident

5:05 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

They are being punished you idiot. There was a moment of silence for Albert today at the christmas liturgy

rbresident

7:59 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012

I doubt there will be a punishment for any of those kids. Remember they are perfect little catholic students. But if the tables were turned, RBR athletes wouldn't be able to play another game the rest of the year.

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GW

10:46 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012

I can understand everyones anger over this BUT until they find the students that said this, if at all, dont bash the SJV community. The school does a wonderful job at instilling good character in their students. Why dont you look the website and see the selfless acts these students do. Whats fair is fair and one rumor quickly started at the game and this too can be a rumor.

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rbresident

4:15 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

GW. It's not a rumor. Things were said whether it was a chant or not, it has been confirmed some students said terrible statements out loud, loud enough for players of both teams to hear. So yes, SJV must do a WONDERFUL job with the students....

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tfresident

5:04 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

Just to let you know the president of the school promised that those who are responsible will have to deal with unpresidented consequences

Kelly Z.

6:57 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

Unfortunately, this is not a rumor. The Holmdel police, SJV principal and coach are involved because there were credible witnesses to this event. Poor judgement on the part of the SJV students. I commend the RBR players for keeping their composure throughout the game after hearing the comments.

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Olivia Dunham

8:19 pm on Sunday, December 23, 2012

The police? Are you KIDDING ME? Seriously. Not that the holmdel police are busy since all they do is sit on laurel avenue an 35 and write tickets but the police? Even if there was a chant. It is not a police matter. Get over it. You people are such babies.

Dee

7:16 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

My child graduated RBR in 2007. At a football game at SJV, when someone went to purchase food at the snack bar, the SJV student asked if the RBR had enough money to pay for it...my nephew played football for an opposing school at SJV, and when they left the field, students spit on them...I was there and witnessed it. I agree that this is not the entire SJV community, but poor sportmanship and very un-Christian behavior is part of the culture there.

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Patti

8:25 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

Someone needs to take these students down a notch from their high horses at sjv. God bless the students at rbr for their composure, excellent character and their spirit!

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larry lynch

5:08 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

Who won? RBR won. They did not respond to the idiots. But I suppose Monmouth resident is more concerned with score.

tfresident

4:59 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

It's disgusting to see how many prejudice and buyest people there are in our community alone. It's obvious that you all have something against catholic schools, and those who are "elite" compared to you. I am a highschool athlete and i have seen both good and bad sportsmanship from sjv as well as rbr, and every other highschool for that matter. You cannot condemn the entire sjv student body because of a small group of individual's actions. Whose to say that it came from an sjv student, this was a public event. Most of these public schools should actually be trying to raise thier standards of accountability and discipline to match sjv. Some kids are able to get away with acts that would have them out of sjv in a heartbeat.

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LisaCW

6:47 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

@TFresident Funny that you made fun of someone above by stating that "unsurprising" isn't a word and then you make a comment and spell "biased" completely wrong.( see your comment above ) I know you are young so just keep this in mind, if you are going to mock someone for misspelling something or call them out for a word or grammar, make sure when you make a comment you are spot on with everything you post.

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rbresident

9:00 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

Ok. It's obvious you're an SJV student. Secondly, it's been confirmed by staff and homdel police that it was SJV students so sorry. And getting online and calling people idiots and biased isn't a way to get your point across. Sorry, but no matter what you say will not stop the fact that whichever students said these words are absolutely heartless and have no manners or sportsmanship. Don't think they would be considered catholic school material.

tfresident

7:19 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

@Lisacw I'll keep that in mind, but that still doesnt diminish the truth of everything else i said, ( assuming you are just another one of those BIASED people commenting on this issue which most likley doesnt involve you, not to say it definatley doesnt. A spelling error by a hs school student is a little less embarrassing than a middle aged adult using unsurprisng.

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D W

10:23 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

This is killing me. Unsurprising. Yes, it is a word. Perhaps someone could look it up.

tfresident

9:31 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

I dont know if you've been informed of this but the golden children of rbr have been doing nothing but trash talking sjv students online, there has even been threats towards the hockey team and thier game tommorow, recquiring a police escort to the game. I didnt know Albert, but he sounds like a good kid and would be ashamed to see what some of his classmates have to say. If you dont believe me check out #sjvscum on twitter. Maybe that will shed some light on this whole situation for you.

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rbresident

5:06 pm on Saturday, December 22, 2012

I think you'd trash talk a school when the students of that school thought it would be a good idea to make fun of an athlete who passed away, in front of his fellow teammates and classmates. Good job tfresident you're really helping your case.

Diane Canterbury

9:33 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

Reading all these comments a few minutes ago. People..... what are you doing? Let the authorities take care of this and stop the tit for tat before you escalate a very serious situation.

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Judy A. Bonanno

7:20 am on Saturday, December 22, 2012

Ditto Diane. Social media has spread the rumors and all the comments so fast. STOP! Let there be PEACE on earth and Let it begin .... Here and now. My prayers go out to ALL, RBR and SJV.

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Jim

12:52 pm on Saturday, December 22, 2012

Judy u have made the most sense of all ..... After 9/11and now new town conn ... It's time to move on .... God bless Albert .... And god bless the students if something was said ..... We need to keep Christ in out hearts all the time not just at Christmas

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Enuf Already

10:34 pm on Saturday, December 22, 2012

Can someone get tfresident a spell checker, please?

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Nyr

12:44 am on Sunday, December 23, 2012

@rbresident, I guess you think it's alright to make death threats. Why don't you just accept the fact that it was one, maybe two or three shiv students acting unacceptably, but dozens possibly hundreds of rbr students cursing at and making threats towards those who were not involved in the incident. I think it's time you started to grow up.

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Nyr

12:49 am on Sunday, December 23, 2012

@ Fred rbpatch, this issue goes beyond spellchecking. Please, if you have something that unimportant to say just don't say it.

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Enuf Already

2:00 pm on Sunday, December 23, 2012

@Nyr- You're kidding right? Have you read this thread in it's entirety? My post is the only one that made any sense here. You have 2 groups of people, many of which weren't even present at the incident (I was, were you?), making accusations, threats, etc. over a few extremely insensitive and careless remarks, and you think that YOUR advice to "...grow up" was all that worldly and insightful? Please... you think way too highly of yourself.

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Enuf Already

2:45 pm on Sunday, December 23, 2012

@Nyr- One more thing "Oh Most Knowledgeable One"... This isn't about "growing up", it's about "HOW Our Children Are BROUGHT Up."... it’s about proper parenting, providing a sense of family and love, and teaching respect for both the living AND the dead. If they’re taught to be disrespectful, they’ll still “grow up” (as you suggest), but they’ll grow up being disrespectful. So the next time you feel you want to add your “important wealth of wisdom”, try offering something more than a mere cliché.

mark donahue

1:17 pm on Sunday, December 23, 2012

I knew albert when he was a young boy and He would have smiled at the few people who made these comments. But lets remember that these kids are just kids and they all make mistakes.

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B h

3:01 pm on Sunday, December 23, 2012

I still don't get what spellchecking has to do with this, and yes I was present.

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Diane Canterbury

11:31 pm on Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Wishing that everyone will let family, friends, and loved ones mourn in peace -- and not be exposed to unwarranted action/cruel discussion. Positive creates positive -- Be positive. Negative creates negative - Stop being negative.

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